Humsafar ka saath…

Jeewan ke saanjh mae chahiye
Ek humsafar ka saath
Kuch hum bole kuch woh bole
Kuch hum sune kuch woh sune
Yun he din guzar jaye ek dusre ke pyar mae
Kuch hum samjhe kuch woh samjhe
Hum roye woh bin bole samajh jaye
Chahiye bas ek humsafar ka saath
Bin maange he sunn le woh
Bin kahe he sunn le woh
Aansuon ko aane na de
Muskurahton ko rukne na de
Chahiye bas ek humsafar ka saath
Marte dumm tak rahe woh paas
Na keh kar bhi karni hae kitni baat
Saath film dekhain saath khaye hum
Saath khele hum saath gaye hum
Uski aankhain humari aankhon ke zariye dil mae jhaank sake
Humari Choti choti khushiyon ko samajh sake
Niyamon ke dayere mae na rahe hamesha
Kuch niyamon ko todhne mae bhi majaa hae woh samajh sake
Chahiye Bas ek humsafar ka saath
Jinse bin kahe bhi kar sake hum mann ki baat
Umr ke iss padhav mae na chhoote saath
Bas pyar aur khushi ki hoti rahe barsaat
Chahiye bas ek humsafar ka  saath
Chahiye bas ek humsafar ka saath…..

Blessed to have a wonderful 🙏🙏😊❤️
Cheers
Shalini
Be Positive
Smile Always
Better Better and Better

Sometimes…

Sometimes….I sit and stare
Don’t know where
No thoughts
Nothing sought
Sometimes…
Looking at the sky
Watching birds fly
I remain silent
Stay in the moment
Sometimes…
Watching at a stack of book
Without giving a look
Staring far away at the clouds
Mind shouting out loud
Sometimes…
I wonder what is life
Nothing to strive
People complicates it
Then fight to simplify it
Sometimes…
I feel everyone is alone
In their internal zone
Made up of a thin layer
To be given utmost care
Sometimes…
I feel nothing and go completely blank
No thoughts at all, to be frank
Is this staying in the right condition?
Or does it call for an action
I wonder!!
Sometimes
I think…Will someone realise someone’s worth
Who cares!!!!! Someone should always know one’s own worth.

Cheers
Shalini
Be positive
Keep smiling
Better, better and better

Wanna grow old with you!! But confused!!!❤️🥺

One day was sitting in the balcony, looking at the sky a girl, engrossed in looking at the web of stars….Had a feeling in her heart…Had a question…Where am I?

This is my friend’s story…It makes me think and introspect as well.. 🤔🤔

As I am writing this I feel we have drifted apart in our thoughts…we are at the two ends …trying to connect through the starts between us…but..somewhere some gap is there which is not getting filled to bridge the communication gap…

This is what is happening to all the married couples…I suppose..Each to his/her own. Trying to stay connected..but miles apart.Why?? What/How is this institution of marriage meant to be??

My feelings are like- I want to spend the moments with you where you are only with me..I wanna watch oceans, sea waves coming and going, sun sets, sun rises together with you…sit quietly with you holding hands and enjoying …I dont ask for exotic excitements, demands ..just the moments where you are there for me.. Watching mountains, enjoying the rains, snows , kids, movies, outings, food with me…for me ..Am I asking for too much…???

Earlier it was like we cannot live without each other…nowadays…its only about you, your way of living life, You are not doing anything wrong or right? but amidst this wrong and right …something is fading away…I dont know I want to have another life or not …I really want to do something that I wish to do in this life..I can put my feet forward your way -one step at a time…but then you go back from my ways four steps…and leaves me there itself…saying see “I dont stop you in any way…you are free to enjoy…Do whatever you want, enjoy whatever you want..dont expect more from me”..

Gradually I dont know what my wishes are now…One day I will fade away …will go away…but I know that will also not affect you…You are on a different path..which I want to walk with u on..but I wish someone could have understood my way of living as well..my affection, love, desires, dreams…which is nothing without you near me or supporting me or being with me at that moment…not doing for the sake of doing anything…

The strong feelings or thoughts sometimes scares me and makes my life span shorter by 2 or 3 years. I am not able to express in a correct way or the way you want …But laddu gopal knows I am not wrong. I am getting this feeling of not doing anything for anyone…run away..but dont know where… I really am confused.. I had a desire to grow old with my partner…Be with the partner every moment, talking laughing, enjoying each others company…Is this really filmy??? dramatic?? Its not for Real life???..

Cheers

💫Dis-eased without infected by the Disease💫

You all must have heard of Alzheimer’s disease????????

As per dictionary: It means – A progressive disease that destroys memory and other important mental functions. Age is the biggest risk factor for Alzheimer’s. It mainly affects people over 65.

What if I say that you will be considered suffering from this disease without even having this disease!!! Confused🤔🤔 Don’t worry!! Anything is possible in this world full of humans with their own perceptions. Suppose, I believe that a particular person have forgotten everything, be it their knowledge or skills acquired through the ages or be it the people management skills.

Then, using several of my so-called ideas, opinions, or perceptions, I may persuade others that the individual does not recall anything. Sounds like Alzheimer’s symptoms, doesn’t it?👀👀⛑️

If we apply this situation to the business world, if a person takes a professional sabbatical at a senior level and wishes to return, he will be told, “Oh! If you wish to re-join, you must go through the returnee program, complete many trainings, or agree to step down one role and rejoin.

Because there has been a break, you may not be in the habit of performing work, managing teams, and you will need to learn everything again for a few months before we can consider hiring you back in the same position.”….WHAT!!!!! In a roundabout way, he’s referring to him as an Alzheimer’s sufferer…

This indicates- No memory loss, no skill deterioration, in fact self-improvement over the break period through self-introspection…STILL infected and must be treated. 💢💢💢💢💢💢💢

All the years of hard work, contribution, value, and sacrifice of personal life go down the drain when that word “CAREER-BREAK” comes into your life.

The only word left is to hit the RESET button.💔💔❤️

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Why are we being asked to go through the entire treatment process without even showing signs of the symptom of the disease?🤔🤔

The “career break” decision becomes a greater sin for people and, after being weeded out and reinstated by potential employers, it gradually becomes a kind of illness.

Do the person really have memory loss??? Due to some years of staying unemployed does he becomes redundant? Shall the person accept the fact that he cannot enter the corporate world without stepping down or undergoing some special training?

Ichigo Ichie Lesson #5- Make every gathering a party.

Make every gathering a party

Don’t wait for the right circumstances—a vacation, a trip, a birthday—to experience extraordinary things. With the right frame of mind, every day can be a celebration.

You don’t need a special day or a reason to celebrate…..Its’s MY LIFE

You can celebrate every moment, even if there are only two-three of you, even with a small cup of tea or coffee, a glass of cold drink or Lime water…laugh more, appreciate more, pay gratitude to everything and everyone around….Love more, send hugs and kisses to near and dear ones….With light music you can relax or rejuvenate!! With peppy songs and fast music dance as if you have never danced before….Make each and every moment a memorable and cherishable moment..

Cheers

Stay Positive

Smile Always

Shalini

Ichigo Ichie Lesson #4- Apply mindfulness to your five senses.

Apply mindfulness to your five senses

Train yourself in the art of listening, watching, touching, tasting, and smelling to give each moment the richness of human perception. This will also allow you to be more alert to others and increase your level of empathy and influence.

The key to embodying mindfulness is to actually turn into a keen observer. Using the five senses — sight, sound, smell, taste and touch — can help you take in the world around you. They can be of great help in slowing down and living in the moment.

Cheers

Stay Positive

Keep Smiling

Better , Better and Better

Shalini

Ichigo Ichie- Lesson #3- Do something you’ve never done before

Becoming aware of ichigo ichie helps us take our foot off the gas and remember that each morning we spend in the world, every moment we spend with our children and with our loved ones is infinitely valuable and  why-being-present-is-so-difficult-and-what-you-can-do-about-it.

The cultivation and practice of ichigo ichie will allow you to lead a happier, more fulfilled life, without feeling weighed down by the past or anxious about the future. You’ll learn to live fully in the present, acknowledging and appreciating the gift of every moment.

Do something you’ve never done before.

Just do it!! DO NOT OVERTHINK!!

As Einstein said, you can’t do the same thing over and over and expect different results. Another way of achieving an unforgettable moment is by giving yourself over and allowing something new to blossom inside you.

Cheers

Be Positive

Smile Always

Better, Better and Better

Shalini

Shabdhon ka Sansar

शब्दों का संसार-

शब्द रचे जाते हैं,
शब्द गढ़े जाते हैं,
शब्द मढ़े जाते हैं,
शब्द लिखे जाते हैं,
शब्द पढ़े जाते हैं,
शब्द बोले जाते हैं,
शब्द तौले जाते हैं,
शब्द टटोले जाते हैं,
शब्द खंगाले जाते हैं,

अंततः

शब्द बनते हैं,
शब्द संवरते हैं,
शब्द सुधरते हैं,
शब्द निखरते हैं,
शब्द हंसाते हैं,
शब्द मनाते हैं,
शब्द रूलाते हैं,
शब्द मुस्कुराते हैं,
शब्द खिलखिलाते हैं,
शब्द गुदगुदाते हैं,
शब्द मुखर हो जाते हैं,
शब्द प्रखर हो जाते हैं,
शब्द मधुर हो जाते हैं,

फिर भी-

शब्द चुभते हैं,
शब्द बिकते हैं,
शब्द रूठते हैं,
शब्द घाव देते हैं,
शब्द ताव देते हैं,
शब्द लड़ते हैं,
शब्द झगड़ते हैं,
शब्द बिगड़ते हैं,
शब्द बिखरते हैं
शब्द सिहरते हैं,

किंतु-

शब्द मरते नहीं,
शब्द थकते नहीं,
शब्द रुकते नहीं,
शब्द चुकते नहीं,

अतएव-

शब्दों से खेले नहीं,
बिन सोचे बोले नहीं,
शब्दों को मान दें,
शब्दों को सम्मान दें,
शब्दों पर ध्यान दें,
शब्दों को पहचान दें,
ऊँची लंबी उड़ान दे,
शब्दों को आत्मसात करें…
उनसे उनकी बात करें,
शब्दों का अविष्कार करें…
ध्यान से सुने …..
गहन सार्थक विचार करें…..
व ध्यान से समझें, फिर उत्तर दें

क्योंकि-

शब्द अनमोल हैं…
ज़ुबाँ से निकले बोल हैं,
शब्दों में धार होती है,
शब्दों की महिमा अपार होती,
शब्दों का विशाल भंडार होता है,

और सच तो यह है कि-
शब्दों का अपना एक संसार होता है

Written by Anonymous

Cheers

Be Positive

Smile Always

Better, Better and Better

Shalini

Different shades of the sky from my balcony

It’s a treat to watch the beautiful shades of the sky with different cloud formations daily…From Sunrise to sunset..There are so many shades of grey colours…blue colours.. shades of red orange yellow as well…Then the night sky covered with blackish grey clouds or a full sheet of stars covers the sky scattered here and there…Moon shining brightly…WOW!!

Amazing magic of the Universe. I just can’t take my eyes away from the sky.

Feels like I have another home amongst the beautiful clouds..so many friends and as well as different creatures to live with…horses, lion, rabbit, Fluffy dog…

Wow!! .Wow!! WoW11…..Awesome world!! It’s truly said imagination has no boundaries….It can take you anywhere….Sometimes, I imagine seeing Lord Krishna playing flute, sometimes Arjun’s chariot with horses, sometimes a complete village scenery, sometimes lakes, oceans, beautiful sunrises, sunsets, birds flying…

A different world where you can soar high and high, fly wherever you want, see the whole world from the top and enjoy its beauty….

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Cheers

Be Positive

Smile Always

Better, Better and Better

Shalini

What is your Kaika moment??

Kaika moment is a typical moment when something unknown starts or begins to blossom within us…

There is a kind of magic whenever a new passion sparkled. 💥💥

It can be well explained by the moment we fall in love..someone who didn’t even exist in our thoughts or hearts a moment before becomes our everything, our life, suddenly sweeps us off our feet becoming our central focus.

A writer says he didn’t know he will become a famous author until he came across a book that haf been left behind on a table at a hotel swimming pool, when he was on vacation…

The Kaika moment for me is that moment when I came across a book called “The Secret” and “The Law of Attraction” Universal law has been changing my whole world since then.

Kaika moment that makes you think YES this is it…I need to seize that moment and valur it…it xan light up the rest of my life…

What is your KAIKA moment?

Cheers

Stay Positive

Smile always

Better Better and Better

Shalini