Life Tip #18 Be Courageous

You must have the courage of your convictions. Having courage gives you the tenacity to work through issues and disagreements without compromising your principles.

Don’t be afraid to speak out and make your opinions known-particularly if you’re the lone voice representing user experience. Master your fears and insecurities and take a stand. Live up to your values.

Cheers

Shalini

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Power of Gratitude in our life…🙏😊

I am currently reading the Magic book and taking sessions on the excecises provided in it. At the same time I am providing magic sessions to around 28 people. I feel so elated and surprised as well for the magnetic power of gratitude. Gratitude changes life in a way you can even imagone of. It starts attracting your dreams at a double speed.

“Be grateful for whatever you have been provided, what you have now and what you dream for. Nothing can stop in creating The Magic in your life”

Keep increasing the count of your blessings in life.

Thank you! Thank You! Thank You!

Cheers

Shalini

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Life Tips #17 Be Responsible

Google says

Being responsible means being dependable, keeping promises and honoring our commitments.

It is accepting the consequences for what we say and do. It also means developing our potential. People who are responsible don’t make excuses for their actions or blame others when things go wrong

It is essential that you do your best to meet your obligations to your colleagues. If you promise to do something, you should try very hard to fulfil that promise.

Yes, sometimes things change..so it is no longer desirable to move forward with something or circumstances may your doing something exactly when you said you would do it.

But in either of these cases it is your responsibility to discuss the problem with your colleagues and, together, determine the best way forward.

Life tip #16 Be Self -Aware

Being self aware require mindfulness and deep reflection on your thoughts, your emotions, your motives in your interactions with others, and what is happening in your life.

Other people are usually aware of your ignorance, weakness, or mistake anyway, so trying to hide your deficiencies just shows a lack of integrity and inevitably results in the loss of their trust and respect. In contrast, admitting your weaknesses increase s your credibility and engenders trust.

Cheers

Shalini

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Life tips #15 Are you a good Listener?

Listening well is the key to effective communication.

Focusing on both what people say and how they say it ensures that you accurately receive the messages people communicate to you.

Paying attention to their use of language, tone of voice, body language,gestures, and emotional affect increases the probability that you will be able to correctly interpret their meaning and understand what you hear.

Listen for people’s ideas, not just to their words.

Life tips #14 Be Helpful

Having helpful hand whether for colleagues, family, or friends comes from focusing on someone else’s needs, struggles and feelings. It requires that you open up your heart to them and put their needs before your own. Empathy enables you to understand other people’s motivations, needs and emotions more deeply and you can use that understanding to create better world for them.Be helpful”The purpose of life is not to be happy it is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.The more you give the richer you becomeCheersShaliniStay PositiveAlways smileBetter, better and better

Life Tips #13 Always be who you are…

Be you!!

Who you are

Never copy others. Never feel as if you are less than others. You are your own competition and companion. Everyday is a challenge to face your true self and think of how to make yourself more humble, more better than your previous version and how to upgrade yourself.

You are unique you!! Feel blessed about it and love yourself.

Cheers!

Shalini

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Life Tips #12 Create a Success Ritual – #1- Every morning ask questions……??🤔🤔

Please create a success ritual for yourself. As defined by Tony Robbins- Every morning, we should come up with some questions, basking on the positive emotions, they inspire.

If facing any difficulty in answering, simply add “could”

Power questions 👇

1. “What am I most happy about in my life right now?” Or u can ask, “What could I be most happy about in my life now if I wanted to?”What about it makes me happy? How does that make me feel?

2. What am I excited about in my life right now? What about that makes me excited? How does that make me feel?

3. What am I proud about in my life right now?What about that makes me proud? How does that make me feel?

4. What am I grateful about in my life right now?What about that makes me grateful? How does that make me feel?

5. What am I enjoying most in my life right now?What about that do I enjoy? How does that make me feel?

6. What am I committed to in my life right now?What about that makes me committed? How does that make me feel?

7. What do I love? Who loves me? ?What about that makes me loving? How does that make me feel?

Trust me if you start asking these questions to yourself you will get an insight into a lot of things that you might not know about or might not have relaised.

Think as if today is your last day on earth. Would you so to make it worthwhile?

It would bring in more clarity and feeling of gratitude. It would help you to become a successful person. 🙏🙏

Cheers

Shalini

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What am I looking for.. Do you know what do you want?

What is that my heart is looking for

Love from all the loved once

Am I asking for more?

What are my eyes looking for

Beautiful path ahead

Jaane kya dhundhta hae yeh mera dil, tujhko kya chahiye zindagi…

What do you want from life?? Ever wondered??

I want very simple things

A tight hug, a small kiss, a light peck on the cheek, shoulder to cry on, sometimes food cooked by mother or sisters or anyone in the family (not by me), love, care, to be understood, avoid judgements for stupid reasons, avoid controversies which brings a rift in the relationship, sweetness, fun, joy, sometimes a time alone that is me time…small small pleasant surprises which keeps me going..little bit time from my sons, friends and now much needed is a vacation (lockdown time)….

As I said, we have many people and many things in life. We need that would make us feel satisfied and accomplished. We only complicate things by saying something or by doing something, which we could have avoided,

One of my favorite song👇

This song is like

जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
रास्ते ही रास्ते हैं, कैसा है ये सफ़र
ढूँढती हैं जिसको नज़रें, जाने है वो किधर
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
बेचेहरा सा कोई, सपना है वो
कहीं नहीं है फिर भी, अपना है वो
ऐसे मेरे अंदर शामिल है वो
मैं हूँ बहता दरिया, साहिल है वो
है कहाँ वो, वो किधर है, रास्ते कुछ तो बता
कौन सा उसका नगर है, रहगुज़र कुछ तो बता
ढूँढती हैं जिसको नज़रें, जाने है वो किधर
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
सूना सा है मंदिर, मूरत नहीं
खाली है आईना, सूरत नहीं
जीने का जीवन में, कारण तो हो
महके कैसे कलियाँ, गुलशन तो हो
शम्मा है जो मुझमें रौशन, वो विरासत किसको दूँ
दूर तक कोई नहीं है, अपनी चाहत किसको दूँ
ढूँढती हैं जिसको नज़रें, जाने है वो किधर
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी
जाने क्या ढूँढता है ये मेरा दिल
तुझको क्या चाहिए ज़िंदगी

Translate

Jaane kya dhoondta hai, ye mera dil
Tujhko kya chahiye zindagi
Raaste hi raaste hain, kaisa hai yeh safar
Dhoondhti hain jisko nazrein, jaane hai wo kidhar
I don’t know what this heart of mine is looking for,
what do you want, O life?
there are paths and more paths, what a strange journey it is,
the one my eyes are looking for, I don’t know where she is..

Bechehra sa koi sapna hai wo
Kahin nahin hai phir bhi apna hai wo
Aise mere andar shaamil hai wo
Main hoon behta dariya, saahil hai wo
Hai kahan wo, wo kidhar hai, raaste kuch to bata
Kaun sa uska nagar hai, rehguzar kuch to bata
she’s a dream without a face,
nowhere, but still my own..
she’s included in me in a way –
as if I am a river and she’s the shore..
where is she, which way, tell me something, O path,
which one is her town, tell me o my way..

Dhoondhti hain jisko nazrein, jaane hai wo kidhar
Jaane kya dhoondta hai, ye mera dil
Tujhko kya chaahiye zindagi

Soona sa hai mandir, moorat nahin
Khaali hai aaina, soorat nahin
Jeene ka jeevan mein, kaaran to ho
Maheke kaise kaliyaan, gulshan to ho
Shamma hai jo mujh mein roshan, wo viraasat kisko doon
Door tak koi nahin hai, apni chaahat kisko doon
The temple is deserted, there is no (God’s) statue,
The mirror is empty, there is no face in it..
(there is no God and no existence of myself today)
There should be some reason to live for,
how will the buds create a frangrance, there should be a garden..
the candle that’s lighted in me, to whom should I give that heritage,
there is no one till far away, to whom should I give my love..

Dhoondti hain jisko nazrein, jaane hai wo kidhar
Jaane kya dhoondta hai, ye mera dil
Tujhko kya chaahiye zindagi

The singer is looking for his beloved. What are we looking for in life?? This question always remains. Its inside us. ..we need to introspect

What is it?? What do you want? You can only discover on your own?

Cheers

Shalini

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Life Tips #11 Do you delay taking action?🤔

Procrastinate : A common way to avoid pain

The fact is if you delay taking action you only create more pain for yourself later on.🙆

We need to plan our things and daily actions in an organised manner. Otherwise, if we are not able to complete on time, we regret. We carry a burden on our head and get frustrated. Just pause for a moment and give it a thought.

What pains I have been trying to avoid by delaying the things?🤔

What pleasure will I receive by taking each of the actions right now?🤔

The answers will decide your course of actions and help in avoiding pain.👍

Procrastination is a slow killer🙄😰

Cheers

Shalini

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